Sunday, March 1, 2015

The LORD himself goes before you...

The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." Deuteronomy 31:8

Thank you Lord for allowing us to travel to Ghana this time. Thank you for all the needed pieces that came together; for the ability, the means, the time, the desire. Thank you for going before us and being with us. We felt called to be with our kids in February for a few very specific reasons, but were blessed by just showing up. I anticipated some battles, in the physical and spiritual realms, but God went before us and did the work. We just showed up and got to see His mighty hand and love at work already. We were there to focus on three kiddos but were so lucky to spend time with all of them and celebrate Elolo's birthday (posts below). 

I feel so blessed to have these kids in my life - they are growing into amazing, loving and beautiful young people! 

Such beauty.....


Patience. She is so beautiful, funny and caring. Seeing her smile and laugh makes my heart happy. She graduated high school last year and has applied to both a nursing school and a teaching college. She has her interview for nursing school March 3!!
Building his new lego toy - a great birthday present from his uncle, aunt and cousin!
It's a hot, sunny walk from Constance's house to the main road. 
We hung out with these three a lot, which was needed. We are checking out a brand new restaurant just outside our village...it is fantastic, a very nice place!!!

Patience ordered tilapia....it's giant! The white stuff in plastic next to it is called banku.

We all cleared our plates! 
View from our 2nd floor balcony table.

Our welcome to Ghana. At the airport. We went through a thermal screening upon entering and leaving Ghana to ensure we didn't have a fever. Precautions because of Ebola.
Elolo received his Christmas present from our family exchange in St. Louis. Thank you Michael (and Kathy) - Elolo and friends loved the remote control car!!! I'm not sure about the thumbs down kid....actually, who is that kid??? =) Elolo in the middle, holding on to his car for dear life!

Coconuts, eggs, phone credit, a taxi...all kinds of things waiting for us at the Kpando market. 

On the ferry from Ho to Accra. crossing Lake Volta. Dried fish and bananas.

Careful, these guys have the right of way!

Buying new shoes!
Enjoying fufu....like a true Ghanaian.

We experienced a short rainstorm about every other day. This is the wet scene as we are
 tucked under an overhang waiting it out near the market.
At Have school

Happy Birthday Elolo - God IS Great!

For the very first time (praying the first of many, many more), I was able to celebrate Elolo's birthday with him! What a privilege and so much fun. Elolo's birthday is February 26...so we had to celebrate a week early. The week previous to his party, Elolo watched many videos of his cousin, baby Elliot. Elolo already loves him...watching him watch Elliot and smile and laugh his priceless. One of the Elliot videos on my phone is from his first birthday where we sing to him and blow out candles on his birthday cake. While I thought that my special order birthday cake (there's one place in town I know of that makes those types of cakes....and it is mainly wedding cakes) would be a huge surprise, that boy knew what to expect and was so excited!!!!

Elolo - We are all so grateful for the day God made you and we are blessed to be a part of your life. El = God; olo= is great. God is great and you are living proof of that.

We started the celebration with a pool party at the local hotel. 
Elolo got to pick his own guest list.


The birthday boy chair.

This gift from Uncle Jeff, Aunt Jenny and Baby Elliot traveled a long way;
Elolo really loved that it came from his friend, Baby Elliot!

We enjoyed a yummy meal.

Birthday cake! Yum!

The simple joy of balloons.

Happy Birthday, Buddy! I love you!

See how he has grown!

 Elolo, January 2007
The day my heart was forever captured.
September 2008. He still LOVES Spider-Man!
August 2009 feeding the Mona monkeys

March 2010
Sporting new shoes with Frank and Sika

December 2011

September 2012

July 2014

February 2015

Schools, schools and more schools!

A lot of schools = a lot of kids. For Ghana in general and for us! Kids do make up half of Ghana's population compared to just one-third in the U.S. Their high school (I have to call it senior secondary there) system is interesting... students have to take national exams after junior high school and rank their top five schools. They get in based on their exam scores. Luckily, most of our kids that have gone through this rite of passage have gotten their first school choices. They're smarties. They work hard. Yep, I'm proud but hoping the younger ones are learning from the older five and follow suit in their study habits.

We spent time at six different schools this trip, for various reasons...all good. =) We only had one full weekend in Ghana this time and we spent it traveling to the see the kids in boarding school - we surprised them all! We rented our own tro tro and took along most the crew. Saturday we traveled to see Noble at Bishop Herman College (really a high school) in Kpando - about a two hour drive on some very bumpy, pothole covered roads. But we did get a beautiful view of Ghana's landscape and Lake Volta as our tro tro climbed up a very large hillside.

Noble wants to be a doctor and is on his way. From the first day I met him, he has been very independent but so loving, a hard worker in everything he does, and has always taken his education seriously....I always had to make up practice math problems for this kid and I don't think I ever stumped him. He tends to have some of the top report cards among our kids. I got to see his report card from his first term of high school this year. He did well, but he is hard on himself and tells me it isn't good. He is still adjusting a bit to a new school and new level of studies, but I have no doubt he'll conquer this too.
Noble's High School
School grounds

Noble. This is his freshman year. Check out that Cardinal's t-shirt!

And because I can't resist....here's my sweet Noble back in the day.
This is when he first stole my heart in 2007.
When Noble is home from school, he is able to send me messages through WhatsApp and I cherish this time with him. I was so blessed on New Year's Eve to be able to chat back and forth with him and ring the new year in right along with him as we counted down to midnight in Ghana!

Our visit was too short with Noble, but so happy to see him! We headed from Kpando back towards home and stopped in Have to visit our next school. There's four boys at the Have school: Emma, Frank, Sammy and Richard. Since we weren't far from home, the boys convinced us to hijack them for the night - my mom then had to convince the headmaster to let us take them! It worked! 
L-R: Richard, Sammy, Emma and Frank

Richard and Sammy. Richard gives some of the best hugs ever...he's one of the top three huggers in our group.

On Sunday we headed to a town called SogaKopi to visit Peace at her high school, St. Catherine's. We knew that Peace was to be baptized that morning and then there would be a ceremony at the church so we set out early on this 2 1/2 drive to make it in time to celebrate with her. She knew we were in Ghana, but she didn't know that we were coming to see her! We were happy to have our four Have boys with us. We also took our good friend and a mama to the kids, Constance so we had a full tro tro which led to some fun singing of worship songs along the way. 

We were quite surprised ourselves when we got to Peace's school. After the church ceremony, Peace was called up to the front of about 400+ people and named the school prefect! This all girl school was chanting her name as she went up and gave a speech! I couldn't believe it! She sounded great, very mature, not nervous. My mom, Constance, her sister, Patience, the rest of her fan club of 15 and me were in the back in shock just looking at each other, smiling ear to ear and shaking our heads. Knowing Peace, none of us should be surprised. She has always been so personable and a go getter, but wow, I was so proud seeing her up there. This girl might be the first woman president of Ghana someday! =) Thank you, Lord for your perfect timing that let us be in Ghana and actually at her school on such a big day for Peace. It was an honor for us to see her and her accomplishments firsthand; thank you for arranging it so that her family and loved ones would be there for her. 

Filling bellies before the long journey.
Luckily the boys saved some for Sika.


Peace and the others who were baptized.
Sisters - Peace and Patience
I'm so proud of her!
Peace was surprised and happy to catch up with all of us. 

Peace circa January 2007.
She welcomed me immediately on my first day at the orphanage, took my bag and hand
and gave me a tour. This little girl made me (the adult) feel so comfortable and at home. 
Beautiful girls


A long day. Elolo pretending to sleep.

Peace's school

We also visited three schools in our neck of the woods in Ho/Sokode. We moved Sika to a new home, which meant she needed to switch schools too....usually a tough if not impossible act in the middle of the school year. But God was paving our way the entire trip. Constance's connection with a headmaster at the local school proved invaluable and we got her enrolled. My mom and I ventured out on our own to Sika's old school to get her records and let them know she was transferring. We were told what a great and respectful student she's been and her grades from the first term were all very high! Good job, Sika! Then we headed to her new school to enroll her and order her uniform.

I also had the sweet, sweet honor of walking Elolo to school everyday as he held my hand the whole way. I was worried about causing any extra 'unwanted' attention for him, but he either was oblivious or didn't care because he had me come all the way up to his classroom to meet his teacher, Madam Perfect. On the last day, he asked my mom if she would come with us in the morning to school. She sure does love him....because it meant being up before 6am. That day he walked hand in hand with both of us up to his classroom so that my mom could also meet the teacher. I'm thankful for his teacher, she is a Christian and cares for Elolo. She told me that Elolo is her friend and when I thanked her for her hard work teaching these kids, she responded that Jesus is the Master Teacher! Amen.

Elolo's school

A clean and ironed uniform. Ready for school! Success!

Fridays are sports day at school. He really wanted to take his new birthday soccer ball but I was too worried he wouldn't return with it so he convinced me to let him take this bat (tucked in his backpack) and a ball. The bat came home, the ball was confiscated. Oops, didn't think about it flying and hitting the school buildings. =) Not a success!